As queer people with vulvas and dicklits, we have to build our sex education for ourselves.

We grow up thinking that lesboqueer sex and practices outside of penetration are risk-free, while barrier tools other than external condoms are unobtainable, expensive, rarely used both in porn and live. How does safer sex between lesbian and SLINTA people work? How do we approach the topic of prevention with new people or in party settings? How do we integrate barriers and their materials with our pleasures and sensibilities?

The first theoretical part will be on self-awareness, involving active discussion on our desires and limits, building and shaping our own pleasure. A second, practical part will allow us to share practices, experiences and knowledge, through group games and exercises. A performative part will also take participants through a journey of safer sex and the discovery of non-binarity of the body.

The workshop contains explicit nudity from the facilitators, and can contain explicit nudity and contact among participants.

This workshop is open to all queer people that interact sexually with people with vulvas/dicklits, but we keep the words “vulva and dicklit” in the title precisely to make a political claim for the systemic invisibilization of desire, pleasure, and safety of these people, to whom this workshop is primarily addressed.